How to Make Your Next Career Move with Intention
Career transitions have a way of creating urgency and scarcity.
Even when you chose the transition, the space between what was and what comes next can feel uncomfortable. You may feel pressure to update your résumé, search job boards and start reaching out to everyone you know. When the right opportunity doesn’t appear immediately, it’s easy to believe your options are limited—or that you need to take the first promising role before it disappears.
But urgency and scarcity rarely lead to our most intentional decisions.
Taking action can be helpful. Taking action without a clear direction can lead you straight into a new version of the same role, culture or pattern you were ready to leave behind.
A career transition is also a rare opportunity to pause and make a more conscious choice about what comes next.
Begin with the life you want your career to support
Most people begin a job search by asking, “What roles am I qualified for?”
That matters, but it is only one part of the decision.
Your next chapter should also account for the life you are building now. Your priorities may have changed since you accepted your last role. You may want more creative ownership, greater financial growth, a healthier pace, stronger leadership or work that feels connected to something meaningful.
Before you focus on job titles, get clear about the conditions you need in order to thrive.
Consider how you want your workdays to feel, how much space you want for the rest of your life and which responsibilities give you energy. Think about the kind of impact you want to make and the people you want to make it with.
These are not secondary preferences. They are part of your career strategy.
Decide what belongs in your next chapter
Every professional experience gives you useful information.
Look back at your last few roles and identify what you want to carry forward. Perhaps you loved mentoring a team, solving complex problems, building something from the ground up or being trusted to set the vision.
Then name what you are ready to leave behind. This may include chronic overwork, limited autonomy, values misalignment, unclear expectations or a culture that rewarded performance at the expense of well-being.
You do not need to judge your past choices to learn from them. Your experience has helped you develop more precise standards for what works for you now.
Separate what you can do from what you want to do
Experienced women are often offered more of what they have already proven they can handle.
Competence can become a trap when it keeps you tied to work you have outgrown.
Being good at something does not automatically make it the right focus for your next season. A thoughtful transition gives you room to distinguish between the skills you want to keep using, the skills you are ready to use differently and the responsibilities you no longer want at the center of your work.
Your next move can build on your experience without requiring you to repeat it.
Create clear criteria before evaluating opportunities
Clarity makes it easier to recognize the right opportunity—and to decline one that looks impressive but does not fit.
Create a short list of priorities for your next role. These might include:
The scope of the work and the problems you want to solve
The leadership style and culture you need around you
Your desired compensation, flexibility and pace
Opportunities for learning, influence and advancement
The values you want your work to reflect
Then identify which criteria are essential and where you are willing to be flexible.
This gives you something more reliable than excitement, fear or external validation to use when an opportunity appears. It also helps you ask better questions during interviews and networking conversations.
Let clarity guide your action
Being intentional does not mean waiting until you feel completely certain. Career decisions rarely come with that kind of guarantee.
It means taking focused action from a clearer understanding of what you want.
You can begin conversations with people doing work that interests you. You can explore industries or roles you have not previously considered. You can revise your professional story so it reflects where you are headed, rather than only describing where you have been.
The goal is not to find a perfect next step. The goal is to choose a direction that reflects who you are now and gives you room to become who you are growing into.
A career transition can be more than a search for your next job. It can be an opportunity to define success more deliberately—and create a career and life that reflect what matters most to you.
If you’re navigating a career transition and want support clarifying your direction and making your next move with intention, book a free strategy call with me:
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You Don't Need a Bigger Plan. You Need a Deeper One.
Most women I meet in my coaching work aren't lacking ambition. They're not short on skill, or drive, or results. They've built careers that look, from the outside, like exactly what success is supposed to look like.
And yet…
They come to me with a version of the same quiet question: Why doesn't this feel like enough?
Not "what's wrong with me." Not "how do I fix this." Just: something in me knows there's more alignment available, and I don't know how to find it alone.
That question is the actual starting point of private coaching. Not crisis. Not burnout. Just a woman who's ready to stop managing her career from the outside in, and start leading it from the inside out.
Overthinking Isn't a Character Flaw. It's a Missing Structure.
Here's what I've seen across 20+ years of leadership, and now across hundreds of coaching hours: overthinking isn't a personality trait. It's what happens when someone is highly capable, deeply self-aware, and missing a container to think inside of.
Without that container, every decision gets re-litigated. Every opportunity gets weighed against ten invisible criteria you've never actually named out loud. You circle the same questions about your next move, your worth, your boundaries, your calling, and you circle them alone, at 11pm, without a thinking partner who can see your blind spots.
Private coaching is that container.
What Private Coaching Actually Builds
This isn't about pep talks or accountability check-ins. It's a weekly practice built around three things:
✅ Self-alignment — getting radically clear on what you actually want, separate from what you've been trained to want ✅ Self-agency — building the internal trust to act on that clarity, even when it's unfamiliar or unpopular ✅ Whole-person leadership — leading your career and your life as one integrated thing, not two competing jobs
Most career advice treats these as separate problems. Get a coach for the promotion. Get a therapist for the burnout. Get a retreat for the meaning. Read a book for the confidence.
But you're one person. Your overthinking at work and your overthinking about your worth are not two different issues. They're the same nervous system, asking the same question in different rooms.
Private coaching works because it holds the whole person, not just the resume.
What Changes
Women who work with me privately don't just get clearer on their next career move. They get a different relationship with their own mind. They stop outsourcing their confidence to outcomes. They start making decisions from clarity instead of from fear of getting it wrong.
They learn to notice the moment overthinking starts, and they have a practice for coming back to themselves instead of spiraling further out.
That's not a soft outcome. That's the actual infrastructure behind every meaningful result they go on to create, in their work and in their life.
This Is the Work I Do Best
I built my practice around one belief: you don't have to choose between a thriving career and a fulfilling life. You can lead in a way that fuels both.
Private coaching is where that belief becomes a weekly practice. One hour, one week at a time, with someone who's spent two decades in high-stakes leadership and knows exactly how it feels to build a life that looks right on paper and doesn't feel aligned in the body.
I'm opening a small number of spots in my private coaching practice right now. If you've been circling the same questions about your career and your alignment for longer than you'd like to admit, I'd love to talk with you about what deeper support could look like.
📍 Book a discovery call here to see if private coaching is the right fit.
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The 4 Stages of Change: Why You Might Not Be as Stuck as You Think
One of the biggest mistakes I see smart, driven women make is expecting themselves to operate the same way in every season of change.
We want clarity. We want a plan. We want to know what’s next. And preferably, we’d like to start taking action by Tuesday.
But change doesn’t always work that way.
One of my favorite frameworks for understanding change is Martha Beck’s Change Cycle. Using the metamorphosis of a butterfly as a metaphor, this framework identifies four distinct stages we move through as our lives, careers, businesses, and identities evolve. Understanding which stage you’re in can completely change the way you support yourself through the process.
Stage 1: Dissolving
Something is ending. Maybe you left a job, a relationship changed, your business isn’t working the way it used to, or nothing dramatic has happened—but you can feel that an old version of your life no longer fits.
Martha Beck compares this stage to a caterpillar entering a cocoon and quite literally beginning to dissolve. Not exactly the most comfortable part of becoming a butterfly.
This stage can feel confusing, emotional, and disorienting. Your job here isn’t necessarily to take immediate action. Despite what we’ve been taught in our Western, individualist culture, springing into action isn’t always the most aligned path. Sometimes we need time to grieve, heal, and let an old identity dissolve.
It can look like nothing is happening, but profound change may already be underway.
Stage 2: Dreaming and Scheming
This is where possibility starts to return. The new version of your life isn’t fully formed yet, but you begin to imagine what it could become.
You start asking different questions: What do I actually want? What could my life look like? What if I tried something completely different?
This stage is about curiosity and imagination. You don’t need a perfect plan yet. You need room to dream.
For many high-achieving women, this can be surprisingly uncomfortable. We’re often much more practiced at executing a plan than imagining a new one. But the butterfly isn’t ready to fly yet. And neither are you.
Stage 3: Trial and Error
Now, we move. You try the new role. Launch the offer. Have the conversation. Apply for the job. Take the class.
This is where we start testing our wings. Some things work. Some things absolutely do not. That’s not a sign you’re doing it wrong.
Trial and error is how we collect the information we couldn’t access by thinking harder. Clarity often comes from moving.
Stage 4: Mastery
Eventually, things begin to click. What once felt unfamiliar becomes natural. You build competence. Confidence grows. The new identity begins to feel like yours.
You’re flying.
This is often the stage we want to rush toward. But here’s the problem: we create unnecessary suffering when we demand Stage 4 results from ourselves while we’re still in Stage 1.
We call ourselves stuck, unfocused, unmotivated, or behind, when we might actually be exactly where we need to be.
What stage of change are you in?
Think about one area of your life or leadership that feels uncertain right now. Are you dissolving, dreaming, testing your wings, or flying?
And perhaps more importantly: what does this stage actually need from you?
Not what you think you should be doing. What do you need?
Navigating a change of your own?
If you're in the middle of a career or life transition and aren't sure what comes next, let's talk.
I offer complimentary 30-minute strategy calls for women leaders who are ready to get clear on where they are, what they want next, and the practical next step forward.
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You don't have to have the answer before we talk. That's kind of the point.